I value my ownindependence so highly that I can fancy no degradation greater than thatof having another man perpetually directing and advising and lecturingme, or even planning too closely in any way about my actions. He mightbe the wisest of men, or the most powerful-- I should equally rebel andresent his interference... Elizabeth Gaskell
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One of the greatest gifts someone can give to a woman is the sense that he values her independence so highly that he does not want to control her. When a man knows a woman well enough to know that she does not need or want his advice, then he can offer that advice in a way that respects her decision making.

Source: North And South

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